Undercover police how to#
It took me a while to learn how to roleplay. It's not just how you look, it's your attitude. You have to learn how to pull these various personas out of your identity, learn to use them as tools, and then use them to your advantage. Think about lying like this: With your parents you're one version of yourself, when you're at a bar you're another version, and so on.
If you say stuff that bold and confident, what are they going to do? You never hesitate, you never say "um." You look them straight in the eye and just say it. One time a hotel employee came up to me and said, "What business do you have being here?" I turned and immediately said, "I'm here to fuck my dad's business partner," and just turned around and walked away from her. You have to be quick on your feet to lie, and you just have to be confident and play the role. I've lost service and forgotten which room I was going to. Otherwise, hotel receptionists can tell I'm coming to meet someone, and the first thing they think is, "Are you an escort? Are you a sex worker?" You don't have to lie directly but you have to say to your body language, I know where I'm going I have the right to be here.īut shit happens. Say I'm meeting a client at a new hotel: I'll try to google the lobby first and learn where I'm going, so I can go straight to the elevator and avoid interacting with the staff when it's time to meet the client.
This relates to how I'll take certain measures to actually prevent myself from needing to lie. It's funny when you start going to the same hotel a lot, and they recognize you and the big bag of dom equipment you're carrying! I always have a big case and an outfit underneath my clothes, and my clothes are ill-fitting because they have to be-I'm likely wearing leather underneath it. I also put down on my taxes that I travel a lot because I go to a lot of hotel rooms for my sex work-I meet most of my clients in hotels. So I do have to lie, which sucks because it's scary as fuck-these big, shadowy government agencies like the IRS could one day get you and say, "Oh hey, we're bringing you to jail." But it's not, so I have to do my own thing, which is the "wrong" thing in the eyes of the government. If having a dungeon was legal, I would pay my taxes like everyone else. You don't need a health inspector to approve your private yoga practice. It doesn't require equipment and is considered a recreation. Yoga is in this beautiful gray area-it's not technically a sport, and not fully considered a health or medical thing. But I say each client I see for domme work is a yoga client. To keep my business in operation, I run my dungeon all under my yoga license, which states I teach private lessons in my apartment. I have to lie a lot out of practicality, too. If I don't offer the white-lie buffer, then new people don't even get to know me. People stigmatize sex work and often think it involves damaged, punished, or oppressed women. If you present the truth slightly differently, people stay a little more open to the idea before they judge.
Undercover police full#
This isn't a full lie, but it definitely isn't the full truth. And this is true-all sex has a power dynamic which is role-playing. I usually tell people that I roleplay with people to engage their fantasies, and that sometimes it involves their fetishes. That being said, I lie and tell most people besides close friends that the domme work I do isn't full-service-e.g. But my grandparents are conservative and I tell them I teach yoga-because I do that professionally too. You have to hide a lot.įor example, I will tell people about being a dominatrix if I think they'll understand-like my dad knows and has even been to my dungeon. But there's more to it than that, obviously. Most of the time I'd rather not work, so I guess my job always involves lying, in a way. I work with a lot of people that have, let's call it, "special issues," and full-service domme work can be therapeutic to some of them. I'm a full-service dominatrix, meaning I do offer sexual contact. I've been a sex worker for three years now.
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